Ladies i need your help!

So i'm almost 18 yrs old and i'm in a relationship with my bf for 6 months. He is 25 yrs..

I am a virgin and i want to have sex with him but i'm afraid of the pain.. Next month is my birthday (officially 18) and he's planning to spend the night together..

The thing is i really want it too but i dont know what to expect. Does it hurt too much? And what about the blood? Should i completely shave down there? If anyone would like to tell me something i'm here. Thank you all. 😃