What?!

So I'm just here to vent. On thanksgiving I did not allow anyone but me or my boyfriend to hold the baby due to her only being 5 weeks old and not wanting her to get sick. Well my grandma called me yesterday and said that if I didn't allow them to hold the baby on Christmas then we weren't welcome to come. Granted, she's had her shots and I was going to let some family hold her but now i just want to be petty and not let anybody again just because she said that lol