Things to try on him...

I'm not very experienced, I only lost my virginity in October. I've met a wonderful man who has been having sex 13years longer than I have! He loves me as I am, but I have confidence issues and I'm not overly comfortable being touched (although getting used to it and starring to enjoy it!). I know he likes rough, our sex is usually rough, and that's fine, but I'd like to try some things and ways of touching him that he will enjoy.

I find he usually has to tell me what to do as I'm too nervous to think for myself and take initiative...can anyone suggest anything to try that men like? I know everyone is different, but I just want to try some things without being told. Surprise him!