Kissing

So I was at this boys house, and we were making out and it was awful! It was like a washing machine in my mouth lol. Anyway, he used WAY too much tounge, it completely put me off him and I left after we had made out for like a minute or two.

Kissing is the one thing that makes me nervous, and that one experience has put me off it, I don’t know how people

enjoy it! I have made out with someone before (a girl) and she was fine but Im scared im a bad kisser or something and don’t know how to fully enjoy a kiss. Please give me kissing tips, like what the hell do I do with my tounge? And how do I kiss without tounge?! Im so confused, I thought that after I made out with someone all my questions would be answered, but they aren’t. And I’m just as in the darl about kissing as I was before. Help!