Lol so I just dealt with my first public tantrum at the mall with my 23 month old. He weighs 40lbs so I couldn't hold him anymore and I knew if I put him down I would lose my place on the extremely long line at Victoria's secret. So while I was trying to put him back in his stroller he started screaming and kicking and fighting me for about 5 minutes. My mother was with me so I asked her to stay on line with my 7 month old daughter while I took my son off the line into a private spot of the store and I sternly spoke to him. When we got back he still fought me and screamed.. this kid is strong as hell so it was a struggle but I finally got him in his seat and he continued crying so my mother took him and my daughter out the store. I could tell almost everyone online was annoyed af but I wasn't about to lose my spot in a 30+ person line just to get myself bras which I don't have any that fit me lol plus I wasn't holding anything up we were still moving with the line. I think I handled it well I wanted to sell at him so badly because I was so fed up with the stress of being out while this was happening but I didn't (I always try not to) i just kept sternly speaking to him which wasn't working but it was making me feel better. I didn't really care what other people were thinking though but I did think it was funny for a short time that people were getting pissed. anyway I just needed to vent kind of lol