Boyfriend says he’s too tired to love me..
While my boyfriend was at work I texted him something that I felt was important. He read it, didn’t text me back... he always does this not that big of a deal. But I’ve been feeling so unappreciated and unheard that it got me upset. I texted him again saying it’s irritating. (By the way... I could see that he was on Facebook at this time.. so it’s not like he was busy).
He gets home and I tell him we need to talk. We sit down and I start telling him how I feel. No yelling or arguing here. But for the majority of the time all I get is “mhmmm”. I tell him that I feel unloved (I’ve been telling him this for SO LONG NOW) and maybe it’s because he doesn’t exactly know my love language. He tells me that he’s too tired to love me the way I want. I told him you never even did love me the way I needed when you weren’t working two jobs so I felt that it was an excuse.. all he said to that was “cool”.
I’m just so upset and I know some of you may be thinking I’m crazy for this being over him not texting me. It’s not it’s over EVERYTHING and I haven’t even told you guys everything. This just was like the last straw.
We have a one year old daughter together and have been dating for over 2 years. When I think about leaving him all I think about is that fact that he won’t care and will find a new girl some day and my daughter will have to be around her and it breaks my heart. I want my little family together I just don’t know what to do.. advice please
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