We had an ectopic pregnancy in October, I had the Methotrexate Shot 2/10/18 but it didn’t work, then after finding my medical notes it turns out the hospital had discovered my right tube was infact closed and they had noticed this over 10 years prior when investigating for endometriosis. So instead of opting for a second shot we decided to remove my right tube with out baby at 8 weeks inside on the 11/10/18, I can’t help but count the weeks and would have been 20 weeks tomorrow. I can’t help but wonder if our baby angel would have been a boy or a girl. Anyway the hospital told to me to wait three months before TTC because of theMethotrexate shot which would take us to the 2/1/19

However we have had unprotected sex three times over the passed two weeks and now i feel really irresponsible but at the same time I just want to be pregnancy again, I want that feeling back, and don’t know whether to continue and see what happens or take precautions and wait. I’m scared if we conceive the baby will have defects as I’m not sure of my folate levels, iv drank loads of alcohol and unsure if the methotrexate will have effected my liver, I have only had a light bleed over 6 days which came 6 weeks after the op and it were black then brown and then slightly pink/red. I just don’t know what to do ??? I suppose I want someone to tell me it will be ok but I don’t just don’t know if Anyone has any advice or similar experiences???