Alternative Lifestyle

I’m in a bit of a different situation but I get it. My husband and I are “swingers” and we both enjoy watching each other. I love seeing/hearing him please another woman... it’s kind of a proud? moment, for a lack of a better word... like yeah that’s my man and he’s awesome... prolly sounds crazy lol. It’s kinda one of those hard to explain unless you’re in it type things.

If it’s something you want to try.... why not? I’m not sure why men like it but plenty seem to. My situation is a little different but i can relate. I have been with my partner for eight years, we have different sexual interests. So whilst he does not see anyone else, I’m free to go and explore my sexual desires with others. If this is something your interested in, then it is super important to have good communication and lay down some ground rules. Discuss with each other beforehand what is and isn’t ok.

well that is a little strange but are you open to it?

It's pretty common and getting more popular. There's a group on here to do with it. My husband has done it with previous relationships, but he introduced me to it and I cant say I have any complaints. At first my concern was that he didn't actually care about me and that he only saw me as his personal porn star but we've gone through everything and talked a lot. There are tons of things that he does after and during to keep communication really good and make sure that I'm confident that he loves me and is serious about our relationship to make me comfortable. Communication is really important if you're going to do this but it can be a really amazing experience and actually strengthen your relationship if you go about it right. I reccomend it.

People have desires.. that's just his kink and there's plenty of porn out there to support that fetish. The only thing you need to do is be honest with yourself and your partner that it's a road you two would be comfortable going down.

That is interesting to me. I would be very interested to hear how that goes.