I'm 34 and my husband is 40. I had my IUD out last month and am ready to ttc #1. DH just started grad school but I don't want to be too much older when I have a baby and I'm of the opinion that if you wait for things to be perfect before having a kid, you'll never have a kid. He agrees with that, but every time I bring it up, he dodges the conversation. I know he wants to have kids, but how can I convince him time is running out?

Anyone else in this position??