hello! so here’s my situation:

i’ve been dating this girl for about a year and she has been my first real relationship. we are super serious and committed to each other and i don’t see her going anywhere anytime soon, but there’s a small problem.

i am now 20 years old and I’ve never had sex with a guy. I do not consider myself a virgin because I think, if you’ve made love before, you’re no longer a virgin. however, since I am bi, I think that sex with a guy is something I should experience for myself, but i don’t want to make my girlfriend uncomfortable.

she has said before that she is comfortable having a threesome, but I don’t know how i feel about losing my V-card that way. then again, the alternative is that i have sex with someone alone which I also feel pretty weird about.

to make this clear, i am only interested in experiencing heterosexual sex. i do not feel i need to have a relationship with a man because i do not think a man would love me any differently or better than she does.

so, if you were me, what would you do?