How do we get it back?

Breanna • I`m an odd combination of opinionated and understanding. Honest. Short. Happy :)
Plenty of you are TTC so the sex life may not be a problem. For those of us who are not, how do you keep it alive? I swear it's only 2x a month ( I'm 22, bf 27, it's  that's slow to me.). It's a part of connecting with your partner- I miss it and I want it back...