Ok so I have 4 kids my other 3 kids I raised alone had in a routine and it was all done my way n they slept from 7pm until 7-8am the following morning.

Baby number 4 is now almost 2, she’s never slept through. My husband insists she sleeps in our bed (I do not approve). He’s got her into this habit now where she’s in our bed and only settles for me as she sees him as a play thing. He then uses this as an excuse to say “I’ll go out so she will settle for u”. - not f***in good enough! I’ve told him how peed off it makes me. He has had her in LOADS of bad habits all of which I’ve got her out of and told him she is NOT going back into them... all accept this one.

She falls asleep in our bed, wakes in the night, takes the pee to settle back off n then wakes a few times in the night again still. To be perfectly honest it’s driving me insane. Especially considering he’ll moan he loses sleep? Bitch please try it for 2 years! I want to know if any of you guys have the same trouble? How can I get her into her own bed n keep her there n get her sleeping through? Tomorrow I am considering putting her down with her bottle giving her a kiss n leaving the room (she can’t get out her cot). Then checkin on her a few times n trying it that way. Because I am legit at the end of my tether with bedtime rn