My partner likes to talk down to me from time to time.. when he’s done talking about something or upset he will say “Fuck you” and it’s pretty mean and disrespectful. Depending on what’s going on or who’s around I handle it accordingly.

Tonight we were lying in bed after we had just had sex. We started to have a heated discussion about one of his coworkers who is always flirting with him and has crossed the line more than once.

I told him I feel like it’s disrespectful to me that he never says anything to her and that he keeps that coworker as a friend at work. He says he doesn’t want to ruin his life bc I have a problem with this woman. But like i said she’s crossed some lines and I feel like he should tell her to back the fuck off.

Well as we were talking about it he said fuck you, I’m tired, and rolled over. I swear to god my blood boiled 😤I grew angry with him. I flew up in bed and pulled the blanket off him and asked him why the fuck he felt like he could constantly talk to me like that. His face went blank.. he’s never seen me angry like this. In 4 years, never. I’m not a angry person. I’m a sweet, go with the flow person. I do admit my pregnancy hormones are raging and I have to control myself but omg I saw red when he told me that.

He’s sleeping on the couch, his choice, he said he felt threatened by me.. 5’2 130 lb pregnant woman.. he’s 6’4 and 200lb

what the fuck am I doing with him.. he won’t even tell this girl to back off unless it’s about work when it’s clear and she’s shown that she wants more.

Update: it’s morning. Our son is up and ready to play. I know that my partner will try to say that I’m cray or something along the lines of I lost my shit. I’m so bothered that he “doesn’t want to ruin a good work relationship bc I’m insecure”. Total BS 😒 I don’t know how to handle the coworker situation. As for him I do love him. It’s hard when you grew up with a moody parent who emotionally and mentally abused you along with physical. He’s never put his hands on me. But I’m able to deal with what he says bc I grew up with it. Not right but it is what it is.

Update: I said we need to talk about last night and he said “you need to figure out where you’re going to go” You need to leave or I’ll leave and you deal with this house.

I said we need to still talk about what happened and he said no we don’t. He said I assaulted him by snatching his blanket.

We’re fucking adults and he doesn’t want to talk about it.. two kids and responsibilities and he just wants me out the door.

So that’s that. He was afraid I was gonna beat him up 😑 such a sensitive person, couldn’t handle his pregnant partner getting in his face finally!!!! And telling him not to talk to her that way. I’m beyond pissed.