Alright so my fiancee and i started dating when my first daughter (previous relationship) was 2 weeks old. It was long distant and he has always be there for her she is how 2 years old, but he never had to be there for the physical care of her in the sense of colic, trying bottles, carseat shopping, picking hospitals etc.

Now we are expect his first baby together but my second I'm trying to find ways he can be included mind you he is an amazing being always asking if I'm okay, giving me comfort even when i don't know why exactly I'm upset, he has even asked what birth method id like to have and says he only cares for what's comfortable to me and baby, which btw made me fall deeper in love with this god of a man, he tries he really tries even when i don't make it easy.

But if like to know from a guys pov what you would of liked to have done to be more included, helping with feedings? Or what lol I'm at a loss because this is the first time I'm ever including the guy in pregnancy, my past relationship was abusive so i don't know what the other parent would of liked to be a part of.

Thank you for any and all advice!!