Is it bad spoiling your child? I have a 8 month old daughter and she is my first child and I spoil her all the time by buying her new things never myself!! My boyfriend doesn’t really like that I spoil her and told me if we have a child together it won’t be like that and No my daughter isn’t biologically his.... I don’t see why it’s bad thing to do when I work for my money and pay my bills. I know when she gets older and understands then I’ll set up chores for her if she wants to earn something or money but right now she is still a baby.