Is it normal😟?

Question

I'm not sure if the first time should be painful but mine was pretty bad. I was looking for answers and found that it could potentially be vaginismus. But the thing is that I don't have any problems with tampons and things like that so I'm not sure either. Idk if it's just because of not having enough foreplay or something else. Any advice?

Answer

You got stretched, poked and rubbed like you never got before. And then there is also the hymen that get stretched and may even tear. About halve of women have significant pain the first time.
Use a personal lubricant next time, and it will be easier if you get on top and control the speed and direction of penetration. Take it very slow and careful. After he is in, you can roll around. A significant amount of time for foreplay can help you fully engorge, and he can insert a finger, then two, then three to slowly stretch you before full penetration. Of course, not all at once, but progressively during foreplay.
The fact that you use tampons means you do not have vaginismus.

Is it normal😟?

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