I had a miscarriage about 3 weeks ago, we have been grieving, moving forward. We had the family over for Christmas we celebrated it was good. It’s news years <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> here we usually have a New Years party every year, this year we are not doing it, we are just spending the night together on our own. And people seem to think we should be doing something, be out celebrating. Mick & I are doing what’s best for us, why does that bother people?