Tubal removal?

So, I’m pregnant with my 3rd child.

I have a boy and girl

Which I thought was perfect and wasn’t sure about another child but here I am pregnant with my 3rd another baby boy💜

Once I have him I’m thinking of getting my tubes tied or removed...

BUT

My SO doesn’t want me to. He wants more children and unfortunately I’m scared to do it and have him constantly bring it up.

Just like he does with our daughter. I got induced a few days before my birthday and he’s constantly talking about how I’m selfish for not having her on my birthday..

He literally started an argument about it and was mad about it. So I feel getting my tubes tied or whatever will cause issues

This is my body and I should be able to make choices. But He controls that.