Im dating a guy for a little bit now. He is almost 50 and I’m in my late 30s , but I look and move like in 25.

We had sex just twice and both times we’re bad. I like the guy a lot because of who he is personally. But the sex is horrible. He told me last night he was afraid to tell me but he takes pills and he didn’t take them the times we had sex. In my head I’m thinking I have a lot of guys that are into me and I have always had amazing sex. Maybe I should move on with someone who can satisfy me I those ways too. It could be also because I’m very youthful too so I want fun and spontaneity.

I’m not saying 50 is old, but I’m curious if this will strip my sex life dealing with someone who can’t perform 100%. I like him and he is fun ..... just this issues ( yikes). The guy is not very endowed either.

Will the pills help? Is it annoying to remember to tell him to take one ? Will it work right away and how often can they go after taken one?

Any advice or experience ?