It's doesn't help..

People keep telling me stories of all the friends that they know that have had miscarriages and now they have children. That doesn't help... I'm not grieving the potential of not being pregnant again. Im grieving my miscarriage. ... my loss of the heart that beat inside me. That particular individual, even if it wasn't meant to be. You were meant to be for just that short time... I'm grieving that loss. .. and yes I hope we fall pregnant again, but it won't change my feelings for what I lost.