I've upset my husband. I allowed my insecurities to get the best of me and told him my fears. He got angry about it. We never like legitimately never fight. So, I dont know how to without fearing he is throwing in the towel for good on us.

* I had to fight too much in my previous marriage that I decided that wasnt the life I wanted. But now I see even healthy couples have disagreements. However, most don't fear that something minor could make them leave.

If there is a misunderstanding/ fight I want to talk it through right away. I feel an urge to fix it immediately. He gives me the silent treatment. I hate the silent treatment. It allows my crazy mind to wander even further and fear he is going to leave me b.c. I had a fear about him cheating.

How do I fix this and make it go away?

(Sex doesnt work for him)

I just dont want to lose my husband!!!

Please help me

His previous wife was overly jealous and didnt let him away from her. Which is why he is angry now. I dont want to be that to him but, I dont know how to get rid of this fear I have.