Being emotional? Kind of long...

Nicole

I am just about 31 weeks pregnant, and have had an overwhelming amount of pain in my pelvis and sciatic nerve for at least the last ten weeks and it just gets worse the farther along I get, as well as exhaustion during the day, heartburn and insomnia at night. I feel like I have no help at home and I am literally unable to do it. I can't use my legs without stabbing pain at any given point in the day (sitting and laying down even hurt). Needless to say my house is a wreck with two little ones at home and a messy husband to boot. My kids and husband do not help with the house and if they do it's maybe one load of laundry or dishes a week...maybe...and even that's being generous. When I ask for help my husband says, "I'll help more." But then he doesn't...

Another thing is my husband is going through a job change (his choice)...where we will lose our insurance and probably not get it until after the baby comes or just before...so I have put off my glucose check/dr appointments because we are so far into medical debt already it is crazy...and he doesn't see the issue and thinks I am, "freaking out," about the insurance.

My question is...I dont feel supported by my husband and feel I am not able to talk to him about this without him acting like I am overreacting...am I just being emotional or are my feelings warranted?