What’s the point? Lol

So honestly what’s the point in having sex as a couple dating if you already been there done that together and both not feeling it yet just enjoy being together and love each other?? I mean long term relationships aren’t about sex right? I mean you already been there done that..

Plus the longer I don’t have it the less I want it I’m so used not having it I don’t even desire it anymore like everything else is so much more important sex seems dumb or childish like I might feel honey for a min when it passes I’m like that’s dumb yeah don’t need to have sex lol..