is this rape?

Chloe

so my boyfriend when i’m half asleep puts my hand on his d**k and basically... and the other night in bed he tried to have sex with me and i said no, but he kept trying so i kept saying no so then he said “give me a reason and il stop” i didn’t say or do anything but he did stop but it made me feel sick.

before anyone says you should’ve said something i just got scared in both situations so went quiet.