MY IN LAWS GIVE ME ANXIETY

Literally ever since my little girl was born I cannot stand to be around my husbands family. Before it was always fine. They’re a little overwhelming and controlling but it never really bothered me THAT much. Now everything they do does.

From my MIL saving every picture I post to Facebook of my baby and posting it like it’s her own

To her claiming my baby looks like her and my husband (which I don’t care if she looked like my husband but everyone thinks she’s my twin, it’s like she’s mad she looks like me)

to her sending us articles that argue against something we are doing parenting wise.

I’m so thankful that the holidays are over. When we were over there people would just come and take her from me without asking, his grandma tried to stick a candy cane in my 5 mo old’s mouth, and his aunt got pissed off when she was literally yelling and I asked her to quiet down because my baby was sleeping

and she said

“she needs to get used to noise”

I said well if we could just be a little quieter

She rolled her eyes, scoffed, and left.

HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS FOR 17.5 MORE YEARS?!?!