Please help

So I’ve been masturbating for about 6 years, sexually active for almost 5 years and I struggle a lot.

I have never been able to or gotten even close to having an orgasm.

Masturbating - nope

Sex - nope

Masturbating with toys - nope

During sex (whether I’m attracted to the person or not or in a relationship or just hooking up) I can’t stay turned on and it’s noticeable because they always point out that in dry or something like that..

I initially get super turned on and wet... but don’t stay like that long, and that’s usually from making out and being grabbed and felt up etc.

I just don’t enjoy anything after the making out and being felt up?

I’ve posted about this before and people always just say I must be asexual, but the thing is that people who are asexual don’t have a desire to have sex or sexual attraction to others... but I crave sex and get turned on and I really do want to enjoy it but I just can’t.

I just want to know does anyone have any suggestions of what could be wrong or something? I just feel broken I guess