I met this guy at the club and we hooked up. We really hit it off and I’ve never had a one night stand before. I thought it was a one time thing but we’ve met up a couple more times. He lives an hour away and works really long shifts. I’m in school and he works. He wanted to see me again but I said no because I had finals to study for but he said he could help me study. I told him we weren’t going to have sex if he came over and he said it was okay that he just wanted to help and study with me.

We have great conversations and he seems like a great guy. I invited him over and after a 13 hour shift and an hour drive, he came to see me.

Do you think he’s interested in me as a person? Or just interested in sex?

I’m planning on talking to him about it when I go back to school but I don’t know if it’s too soon to ask?