So I’ve been friends with this guy, let’s call him P. He’s always been there for me, through bad breakups and my emotional breakdowns. We had never hung out much until this weekend. The weekend went soooo good. It was like we were in our own world without a care, completely stressless. He was always loving on me, playing with my hair, snuggling up to me, flirting. We stayed in bed all day just talking about everything, our biggest fears, things we are proud of, relationships. We agreed on all our opinions and views of everything. Abortion, LBGT topics, politics, equality... It was pretty much perfect. He even bought me food twice today when I said I was fine and not hungry 😂

So last night these two girls came over. They were there for P’s two best friends. We all drank together and had a really good time. Both boys had sex with the girls they brought over that night.

Fast forward to today. The boys, P’s friends, are TOTAL TRASH. They were going on about “man I was just tryna smash and get rid of her” “she was so annoying” “I had to go to the bathroom every time I checked my phone” They have no respect for women at all.

So the question is, should I be careful and keep my guard up with P because of the friends he keeps around? Should I just ignore the friends and do my own thing with P?

These are his two best friends. Both of them look up to P. They’re always at his house and you can see by the vibe that P is like a big brother to them. I can’t get over the fact that P let’s them act like that around him. He seems too good to be with people like that.