How should I make my boyfriend miss me? I have been putting too much effort but now I want him to be the one to call and text me first everytime.

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Make him miss you? If you have to make him miss you, there’s something amiss in the relationship or you both spend way too much time together. Instead of being petty, why not have a talk with him and tell him how you’re feeling?

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Don't ignore him, and don't play games. Tell him you want him to initiate conversation more often.

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Talk to him.  Don’t play games

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You can't make someone miss you. But you can have a healthy relationship with communication and less games.

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Don’t play games with your boyfriend that’s so unhealthy. You tell him hey babe I want you to call and text me more often. If you have to play games to have the upper hand than this relationship isn’t the right one.

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Are you 12?...
If you have to make him miss you, then you shouldn’t be together...
Playing games with someone is super juvenile and immature...

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I think that maybe you don’t give him enough space to miss you. Talking to him will make him feel choked. Guys always need more space than girls do, that’s the fact. But please don’t play games with him either: you do NOT ignore someone you love. What to do? Learn to do NOTHING. Seriously. Relax, lean back and get busy with ANYTHING. Wait this first time for him to text or call you first, and when he does, -even if it’s hours later than you expected, - be happy and sweet and friendly, and make him feel good, instead of being all stressed out and asking him “Where the f*** have you been all this time?” Guys lose sense of masculinity, when a woman takes a role of “the chaser”. It’s great that you noticed that something is not balanced right.
Be action-taker in all areas of life but not with the man. Let him take initiative. The good news is that you can switch that pattern and make him be the one who chases you. The ONLY way to do it is the hardest, but it works a100%: be A WOMAN in the relationship, which means - just chill, and make it a rule not to call or text first. And see what happens. If it doesn’t work the way you want it to, you can always come back to your comfortable patterns!

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I’m not choosing either of the options because this is immature. I’m assuming you two are kind of young. 
Sit down with him and have a conversation about it. Tell him how you feel.

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We had some misunderstandings earlier on but then his birthday was coming up soon...like in 4 days after that...so I gave him some space to cool down and then on his birthday I took him out and even gave him a gift(a nice jacket), so after that, he talks to me less I don't know whther he is possed or not. The bad thing is that I see him online sometimes late in the night but no messages.

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Thank you all. I sent him messages on whatsapp and even tried beeping him, but ehhh. I have decided to chill talking to him for a while, till after a week from now is done. 
Though I can't help it checking on his whatsapp if he is online anytime