Is it just me or its normal after having a baby?

Alexis • Im 27, you can call me Lexi 💕 First time mommy to a baby girl 👶🏽🎀 now baby boy 👶🏽💙 Was pregnant with identical twin girls💕 Guardian Angel 👼🏽 4/26/17 Miracle Baby 💕🎀 12/13/17

So our daughter is almost 13 months old... me and her father have been together for almost 3 years (Feb 14th). To me ever since she was born our relationship has changed. We dont sleep in the same bed ever since she was born because our bed is fo squishy and I didnt want to squish her since she was so little. He works all day from 5:30am-7:15pm and sometimes on Saturdays. When he comes home he usually takes a shower or not at all and just stays in the room until dinner then goes to be after since he gets up early for work. We dont really have much sex, only when im off my period and I’m always asking for it... but its hard cuz the baby. We dont really go out much and he doesnt have a car yet so that also is hard. I just want some feedback on if this is kind of normal after having a baby. I feel like we r distant, dont talk much in person, no much affection.... idk what to think.