i need help!!

so things have gotten intense between my boyfriend and i lately. we’ve messed around a little every time we’ve seen each other since the first time he’s stuck his hands down there and left me satisfied. the first time was definitely painful but not bad. then it became not painful at all. last night, he did more than usual and i bled. i’m still bleeding a little bit, it’s been about 20 hours and i’m still in a lot of pain down there. i’m a virgin, and i don’t want to talk to my mom about it or my doctor. pls help.