Depression before PDD

Ra

I have a 8month daughter. I had a stressful pregnancy. When I found out I was pregnant I also found out my dad had cancer. Then my husband got diagnosed with chrons and uc. And then my mom had a heart attack. Anyway it was stressful. My baby was due in May, and my dad tried to live as long as he could just to see her born. He passed away in March and it's had been really hard on me. I had my daughter I named her after him and one of my mamaws that had passed. Anyway she is 8 months old. I lay in the bed til my husband comes home at 4pm, I don't feel like being sociable with anyone anymore or going out, I can't sleep when she does. I can't sleep at all. It's getting out of hand. I know I need to get up and be there for my daughter. I know laying in a bed all isn't fun. Me and my husband has tried to give her a brother or sister and I get bummed about that. I know I need counseling but I don't know how that can help?