Help, his dick doesn’t get hard 🙄😒

ok so I’m sexually active since I was like 17 I’m 20 now, soooo I been knowing this dude for a 3-4 years now and we both are attractive to each other. Lets take this back to 2016, his really really attractive to me so my brother would always invite him to our house parties but we never talked idk how we did but we were drunk most likely than we started talking thru instagram at the time I had barely turned 18 and was still in hs, it became summer 16 and i would go to summer school only for physics class for 45 mins than go home, but since me and him texted and he lived like 3-5 mins away from school we decided to link up lol um yea so when it was time to have “ sex “ his dick never got hard at all i knew it wasn’t me it was soft the whole time the whole time i was so confused 😐 lol so since i sort of liked him and thought he was cute i talked to him after that and my dumbass decided to see him a week later 💀 and guess what IT HAPPENED AGAIN 😭🤦🏻‍♀️ it wasn’t getting hard at that point I gave up and cutted him off 🙅🏻‍♀️ so this was all in June. On the third of July my brother threw a party and he came I got so drunk that I was so soo sooo drunk I wanted dick soooo bad lol I don’t remember much since it was in 2016 but I remember we were in my restroom and he was HARD LIKE REALLY HARD and I was really gonna like rape him 😂 but he was scared of us getting caught after that I never tried anything with him we talked on and off but he would still want to but I just couldn’t with someone with soft 🍆 he has a decent size for a soft dick I can imagine when is hard hard 🤤🥺 but how do I make this man hard 😂 so recently idk why but we started talking again but his soo attractive to me i couldn’t help it and i went over to his house just the other day and his dick was semi hard but he wasn’t able to cum than went soft and idk what happened 🤦🏻‍♀️ today i was super super horny and was like ima give him head so he pick me up and 🤦🏻‍♀️😂 y’all it was semi hard that went SOFT ON ME AND NEVER GOT UP BRO SO IM LIKE FUCK THIS SO I GAVE HIM HEAD AND IT GOT SEMI HARD THAN BOOM IT WENT SOFT WHILING GIVING HIM HEAD YALL I WAS LIKE UGH IS SOFT .. Idk what to do lol like I know I can just cut him off but I just him to feel pleased and make him cum like what is wrong with him lol what I gotta do for him to get hard hard