I’ve been dating this guy and we recently started having intercourse. The first time it happened, he asked if I came. I said no, and mentioned that it’s hard for me to cum from intercourse alone, but oral is pretty effective on me. I can’t remember exactly what his response was, but he seemed to understand. Since then, he has talked about how he wants to give me head... but we’ve had sex a few more times —- still no head.

I’m starting to question myself but I think I should talk to him before I overanalyze. What would you say to him and how?

I think he’s a great guy but life is too short to be sexually dissatisfied with someone I’m not even married to.

Thanks, ladies!