Sex over oral

I keep trying to engage my husband for oral sex. Whenever he wants to do it he wants to 69. Which is great but ya’ll my arms get tired from holding myself up. Plus I’m a full foot shorter than him. 😂😂 It just doesn’t line up! Or he always want to use a toy I have. Again, all great but gets old.

He such a sweetie and like to “make love”. I like it but I like to spice it up a little! Plus intercourse doesn’t do anything for my taco.

Thoughts?