Okay ladies, I need y’alls help. My boyfriend and I are getting the point of having sex. We have talked in depth about it and we have done basically everything else but have sex. We have been dating for a few months now btw. He tried to get me to do it today and its not like Im not ready, its just that we are both virgins. I thought him and I were on the same page about waiting for a while and I understand that he might have just gotten caught in the moment. Anyways, do y’all have any tips on talking to him about it. Like I said we’ve already talked a few times about when we will have sex but I want to have a full on sit down conversation with him and I just need y’all to give me some tips on talking to him and reasons on why we should wait a little longer. I dont want him to feel like he is just waiting on me I want him to want to wait too.