So for a while now I have had no sex drive, me and my fiancée are still very in love and have a 3 year old child, sometimes it’s just due to tiredness from work and being a mum etc but I literally NEVER want sex!

It’s not an attraction problem I just don’t feel like it and don’t even bother doing it on my own anymore (if you know what I mean) we used to have a very active sex life and now it’s once in a blue moon. I have the contraceptive implant and have had it for about 3 years (due out in May) sometimes I wonder if that has anything to do with it?

All I know is I want my libido back, my fiancée doesn’t even like to make a move anymore because he thinks I’ll just say no, I have tried feeling sexier with underwear etc but it only ever lasts for the moment and then I am back to not wanting sex again for weeks, how can I get my sex drive up and running again??