my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now. we just had a daughter so obviously we have had sex but recently hes become very aggressive and not in a good way. when i tell him i’m not in the mood to be intimate bc our daughter is awake or asleep in our bed or even that i’m exhausted he still moves forward until i just give in. i’m starting to feel sort of violated, like i get men have needs but damn if i dont wanna back up for a second. am i wrong for feeling this way or should i just please my man. and how do i get him to chill out or get in the mood when he tries.