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Im just curious about you ladys opioions on this.. Ever since we discovered we were pregnant my SO has been watching Porn... I know this hurts my feelings. But am I over reacting ?

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I’d be more upset if he were acting out urges with people in real life. I don’t care if my husband watches porn bc I do too and he’s touching himself not anyone else. Sometimes we even watch together. Nbd to me.

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Def wouldn’t be okay with me.

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Personally I have zero problem with my husband watching porn and using a hand to satisfy himself. I have negative sex drive when pregnant.
But if it’s an issue for you, one he knows about and you two have discussed, then he isn’t respecting you. I would talk to him about it.

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Not that I agree with it, but are you two having less sex? He could be using that as an outlet if either of you are less inclined to have sex with each other at the moment. I think it’s worth talking about with him.

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Me either I mean if it’s something he always did ok but y wait till now to do so ask him tell him how u feel

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I could be off, but maybe it’s not the porn itself that bothers you. 
Maybe it’s the fact you told him something bothered you and he continued to do it anyway? You might not feel heard by him. 
Maybe it’s an insecurity with your own body or own sex life? Trust issues perhaps? I’d dig deeper and try to unpack the “why”. If he’s truly fulfilling you emotionally and physically as well as being an honest partner, I can’t imagine porn itself would be a problem.

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How did you find out about it?

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Without you?

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Personally, I don’t care if my husband watches porn. I watch porn. It wouldn’t be right if I told him he couldn’t while I do. Sometimes he even shows me porn. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’d rather he watch porn and take care of himself than go try to find someone else to do it (not that I could ever see him doing that to me). But he also doesn’t watch it often. As far as I know, it’s been a few months at least. But I don’t ask about it and he doesn’t tell me unless he’s showing me something. If it’s something that really bothers you, it’s always worth talking about.

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I would tell him if he wants to watch it you have to watch it together. That’s how I got my boyfriend stop.

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