Bomb dropped on MIL!

So, my MIL seems to have this... Fetish for grandchildren.

When opening christmas presents every broken ribben is a grandchild. She broke 5 ribbons, saying she needs 5 grandchildren.

BIL and SIL are done having kids (they have 2), so its on OH and I. We aren't in any rush, I'm 23 hes 26, but we do want more kids at some point. We are financially ready at any time, I would need to get my medications adjusted, but that takes a phone call.

MIL is saying we need to have another ASAP so we can keep her pattern for grandchildren. Oldest is 3, ours is 2, youngest is 6 months.

Since we had our son she's been demanding we let him spend the night. But since he has lung issues and they smoke it hasn't happened.

So, we got mean.

Oh, and I told them once they get 6 months smoke free we will start trying.

Can't make demands without compromising.

She said she would stop cold turkey new years but that hasn't happened. And FIL is just going to follow what she does.

Be cigarette free get a new grandbaby and have our oldest spend the night!

We will see how badly they want a new grandbaby and to have sleepovers.