losing virginity! any tips? šŸ˜­

Hello! iā€™m 21 years old and iā€™ve never had sex, butttt im getting married on June, and im REALLY nervous about losing my virginity because iā€™ve heard that hurts a lot. I waited until marriage because i want to feel comfortable, loved and safe as it will be my first time. Weā€™re completely in love and weā€™ve talked about ā€œthat losing my virginity momentā€ (heā€™s no virgin) because as i said im really scared, heā€™s always saying like ā€œim gonna help you thru itā€ or ā€œim gonna make it easy for youā€ but still, people keep saying it hurts!

ANY TIPS??!?!