Do I tell him my Number?

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My fiancé has never brought it up before, but tonight he told me his number and he asked me how many guys I’ve slept with? I’m not ashamed of my past by all means but my number is wayyyyy higher than his. I just said more than you but your the last and left it as that but Should I have told him or just leave the past in the past?

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Man this was a coversation we had before we even slept together for the first time. Know your sex partner!

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When dating then I’m ok with telling him, but being married I don’t like to talk about any of that stuff with him. I prefer to leave everything in the past where it belongs.

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I mean he did ask so he did want to know. I’d say leave it at that and if he keeps bringing it up then you decide whether or not you wanna tell him. My bf told me his number and his is way higher and honestly I thought about it a lot. But after awhile I got over it because those women are of his past 🤷🏽‍♀️. Some ppl care about it and some don’t. It’s like a insecurity thing.

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Why? What’s the point?

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He doesn’t need to know the number. The only thing a sexual partner needs to know is your status. If he pushes it, I’d ask why he would want to know all of a sudden.

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It's up to you. He isn't entitled to know, it all just depends if you want to tell him.

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My husband and I just told each other our numbers a few months ago... after 8+ years together. Surprisingly our numbers were the same, but it never mattered to us. Unless he specifically asks again I would just leave it at “ more than you”

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I find it weird that people say it doesn’t matter and that it’s in the past, yet it’s information they feel is worth protecting 🤔 sounds kind of hypocritical. We talked about our numbers before ever having sex. I knew he was a bit more.... casual than I was about sex. I explained to him how I’m picky, and cautious about who I sleep with. My number was just over 10, his number was quadruple that.

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Is this a thing? Cause i find that invading my privacy 100%. You don’t need to know my number for any reason. I wouldn’t but that’s just me.

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Mine is way higher than my fiancé’s, he was a virgin and he was my 70th body. We talked about. He was upset for a lil, but if youre like me you will feel bad about it. Telling is easier than living a lie.

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