3rd pregnancy loss

We just learned that we are having another ectopic pregnancy. We had one last year and  lost another to miscarriage in February of this year. I just don't don't know what to do, my heart can't take anymore. No one knows what to say to me which just makes me feel even more alone. I feel like I am failing my husband and the amount of guilt I feel for my body failing me is overwhelming. I have no idea how to move forward