Hey everyone,

If im in the wrong group let me know so i can move my topic

Im asking for some advice.

Over the weekend my cousin and his wife lost their babyboy 💔 She was 31 weeks along and experienced a stillbirth. The reason was due to her placenta detaching, so baby was no longer recieving oxygen from my undersanding. She went through labor, had the baby placed on her chest, got his footprints, they took pictures of him, and had the baby on her room the whole time she was on the hospital.

I cant imagine the imense pain and sadness to feel your baby kick and grow to have the doctor tell you that they can no longer hear a heart beat 💔

I feel totally helpless. 😞 ive told them that if they ever need anything to call my fiance and I and let us know. I know they are both greiving. As so is the rest of the family with them.

For the ladies who has gone through this,(in advance, sorry for your loss💔) is there any advice as to what i can do to help them. I want to be there for them but i just dont know how exactly, besides checking in on them to see how they are doing. But even then, i dont want to be constantly asking them and feel like im annoying them, being a reminder that they lost their baby 😥💔

I thank you all in advance.