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I don't keep track of my number of partners, just like I don't keep track of my number of friends, doctors, or cocolate chip cookies. Numbers assign quantitative values, not qualitative analysis. No one, NO ONE is better or worse a human being than anyone else for having different experiences and making their own choices.
how many guys have you been with?
they say every girl lies about how many people they've slept with and I just want to see if I'm the only one that really does lie about it. so I want everyone to take a moment and admit their real "number" without feeling bad about it. also, how many people do you say you've been with?
I say I've been with 3 but I've been with 6
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I'm a Samantha from sex in the city and my number is unknown
Em
Iv been with quite a few guys but i just tell people my number is 5.
Ke
I second that. Though I prefer not to put a number on it, I am certain I couldn't if I tried. Now.. Iv slept with a lot of people, it's not really up for discussion because it doesn't matter either way. If your actions are from a place of security and empowerment, then do it. End slut shaming.
Only one my husband 😍 We had sex when we were 15 and I ended up getting pregnant a few months later and falling deeper and deeper in love with him.. Now we're 22 and more in love than ever and coming up on 4 years of marriage! We also made it through a 3 year long distance relationship. Never let distance or the face that you're "high school sweethearts" get you down! Be with who you love and tough it out 😋💕
Ma
thanks girl 💐
Am
THAT IS AWESOME
Ka
Fuck the stigmas you go girl 👊🏼
I'm 20, and my number is 0, I haven't even kissed yet and I don't feel pressured in losing either of them.
Li
same here
Ha
I didn't have my first kiss until I was 21 and he is marrying me at the end of the month! So much better that way, he's the only man I've ever known intimately.
Am
That's awesome!
I dont see many posts like this but im 23 and ive slept with close to 50 males i dont feel at all ashamed about that number i have always believed why is it if men sleep with that many girls they are a legend to their mates but when females do it their friends call them a slut. I enjoy exploring my sexuality I have learnt so much about myself and learned to love my body! I've also never had an sti or unwanted pregnancy! But I now have an amazing partner and a son!
Ma
100% agree!
Ma
Goddd damn!!! Omg I honestly love this and i wish more women would share their numbers!!
pi
i am 23 and i have been with around 60 men as well
Honestly, I've been with enough that I lost count at 21. My BF and I have disclosed all of the information about sexual partners to one another and he doesn't have an issue with it- where I do. I had a rough part of my life where I used sex to fill the emptiness. It's not something I'm proud of.
Ma
Yeah me too. It's not something to regret though in my opinion
Si
Everything you go through will make you or break you. I did the same thing several years apart usually for me it's after a bad break up or two. I don't regret anything I've done though. I think it really helped me take certain aspects of my life more seriously. I think I'm person after the fact.
Me
I am looking for temporary happiness through sex. I'm only 17 and my number is like 14..some situations I shouldn't have been in and it's not fair to count them
I'm 21 and I've only even slept with one guy, but I have slept with four girls. I actually thought I was completely gay until I met the guy that I'm with now. 8 years of sleeping with girls and then this dude shows up out of nowhere and steals my heart. Such a weird experience, but hey. That's my story. 💪🏻
Ma
Wow plot twist haha as long as you're happy who cares though :)
Je
I'm pregnant! Oh my lord, twins!
Me
Same omg and I have a 9 month old son now with this amazing guy
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