How do I fix a bad perm? 🤦🏻‍♀️

Question

I wanted a loose wave and she gave me super tight spirals. it’s always frizzy, always tangled, and no matter what I do- no product, leave in conditioner, mousse, gel, etc.- it just won’t cooperate. 
i hated it as soon as she was done, but i didn’t have the heart to tell her i didn’t like it, so I just showered immediately when I got home, but it won’t wash out 🤦🏻‍♀️
It’s been about a month and I’ve washed it once every day/every other day and it doesn’t seem to be coming out at all. (Plus my hair has started to FALL OUT in huge chucks but it’s possible that’s more related to stress than the perm 🤷🏻‍♀️ idk) 
I don’t want to damage my hair even more by getting it permanently straightened, but i want these curls GONE. 
Does anyone have any natural/minimally harmful solutions? 
I could use tips to tame the curls as well, but I’d love to know how to get rid of them completely 🙃🙃

Answer

Do NOT I repeat NOT
•Color
•Relax
•Get another chemical treatment 
•Brazilian straightening
AT ALL! Your hair can literally FALL OFF.
Wait at least 8 Months before doing anything that has to do with chemicals again. 
- former hairstylist

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I would be very careful, your hair is pretty damaged after a perm. Also a perm isn’t going to “wash out” it’s a perm as in permanent waves. So washing your hair everyday could just be making it worse. You need to keep your hair moisturized. I wouldn’t color your hair that can’t make it fall out even more, especially DO NOT BLEACH it’ll create a chemical reaction and it will make it fall out for sure. Just give your hair some rest the only way to really get rid of it is to grow it out and cut it.

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You could try color, or you could do a chemical relaxer... your perm is actually pretty loose compared to most. They can’t ever seem to get a good loose wave though 😐

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I would keep it just straight if I were u.... It doesn't hold the waves very well at all..... The straightness is already showing through.... It's like your straight hair is having a battle with the chemicals in the perm....it seems as though u have fine straight hair that will NOT be able to hold any type of perm.... Bless ur heart.... Just deep condition as much as possible and  possibly look I to doing a olaplex treatment (using ONLY STEP 3) about once a month just to keep it healthy while the rest of the crinkles fall out.....

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Go get a Brazilian blow out