How did your husband about a week after the vasectomy? I baby my husband bc I’m thankful for him going trough it and I would never tell him this, but I think he’s acting really dramatic. It’s been 4 days and he’s moaning and groaning all the time, he won’t leave the couch for hardly anything, but he will go to work during the day. I’m up and walking around the day that I give birth (even when I had an episiotomy) and I’m not moaning and groaning every time I walk, get up, or sit down.

He says he just sits at work but goes bc we need the money. And he’s not a dead beat. He is usually extremely involved with our kids, but 4 days out and he says stuff like “I can’t hold (our 1 year old) because my incision is bleeding”. We do have 3 rambunctious kids, but still.

I just don’t get it.