My boyfriend was brought up to not talk back to adults. .. well my kids talk back.. I raised my kids alone do to my ex going to jail... and all my focus was on his addiction and trying keep him alive.. anyway my oldest don't do drugs she's now in college she's not pregnant so I believe so far I didn't do so bad.. they respect other people except my boyfriend and I. . My oldest likes him! My youngest doesn't do anyone else have this issue? How do you adjust with new boyfriend and your kids? This is new to me.