Howd you know you wanted #2?

Zoe

I just had my son November 16th so I am nowhere near ready for baby #2 or even know if I want a second baby. I sit and I think about it sometimes cause my pregnancy was so hard on me and my labor was horrid and the healing process. I was sick up until I was 6months then I was in labor for 56hrs followed by a csection that would later get infected and also somehow managed to develop ulcerative colitis so needless to say pregnancy didnt treat me well😂 I'm just curious to what made you ladies decide yall wanted baby #2 or what made yall decide you wanted only one. Ik every pregnancy is different and just because my first was very hard it doesnt mean my second will be but ik my fiance wants another one maybe 2 more but my fear is that i may be too scared to have another in fear that I'll have the same complications. Any words of wisdom lol