So I don’t LOVE the idea of my man watching porn but realistically I feel like it’s something that’s totally normal these days, and I myself watch it on occasion. So I feel like me being open to it creates a space for honesty.

The only time I have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn is if I am home with him or if he lies to me about it. I feel like this is a good compromise rather than being straight up pissed off about it or completely against it, no? Or is this also being too uptight? I’m just trying to find a space where it’s comfortable for both of us, and make sure he’s not low key feeling like I’m controlling him or holding him back.

I literally give him head or we have sex every single day, so I know we are both very sexual people, so I’d understand if I wasn’t home for a day or two he would need a release and I feel like in my opinion that would be the only time it’s okay with me. How do you ladies feel about this?